These are not a league table and they are not safety endorsements. Each is a useful starting point only because there is a current, first-party fact that helps you plan. Confirm the rest directly before travelling.
Woolacombe Beach
Worth considering when you want a beach-day base rather than a quick detour. A current North Devon Coast National Landscape visitor leaflet identifies pay-and-display parking along the Esplanade, with larger car parks at Esplanade, Sandy Burrows and Marine Drive, plus toilet and accessible-toilet locations. Seasonal charges apply, so confirm payment arrangements before you go. Check the day’s Woolacombe tide times, RNLI status and beach signs on arrival. For a wider overview of North Devon beaches, use the North Devon beaches guide.
Croyde
North Devon Council lists its Croyde car park at Croyde, EX33 1LX, with summer charges from 15 March to 31 October and payment by cash, card or RingGo at the time checked. That is a useful planning fact, not a promise about the route from car to sand, space availability or any facility being open. For a toddler day, check the exact parking choice, the approach you will use and current signage before leaving the car. If water play is part of the plan, read the North Devon beach safety guide first.
Combesgate Beach
North Devon Council currently lists the public toilets as open daily from March to November, with no baby-change facility. Consider this only with a self-contained changing plan and a day-of check that seasonal facilities are available. It can suit a short coastal stop, but tide and conditions remain part of the decision. If your group hopes to paddle, use North Devon beaches for paddling and make a fresh day-of check before entering the water.
Instow
Instow Parish Council describes Instow Sands as an amenity beach, with Marine Parade car park opposite the Quay providing access near the Quay. It suits a shore, promenade and sand-potter outing rather than a surf-beach plan. Instow is not a bathing beach, and the public are advised not to go swimming. Do not treat it as an option for paddling, water play or swimming. If a sand project is the main event, North Devon beaches for sandcastles can help you frame the outing.